That was certainly the longest interlude between two related posts I've ever had.
{{I've been busy}}
So here is the article that I read right on the heels of my previously reported magazine encounter:
Be sure and ready Rachel Held Evan's post that triggered Tim Challis' post: Thou Shalt Not Let Thyself Go
(have a headache yet?)
Better Conversations about Biblical Womanhood Part 2
So.
Yep.
I tried and tried to write my feelings out about all of this, and I just can't. Maybe because I've just had too much going on and need a lot of quiet time (haha) to sort this out in a way that I can write out my thoughts. Or maybe I don't even want to figure it all out. This may be one of those "suck it up" issues where too much thought is not a good thing.
So.
Yep.
I tried and tried to write my feelings out about all of this, and I just can't. Maybe because I've just had too much going on and need a lot of quiet time (haha) to sort this out in a way that I can write out my thoughts. Or maybe I don't even want to figure it all out. This may be one of those "suck it up" issues where too much thought is not a good thing.
I do need to note the following comment. Maybe it's not all about physical beauty. Maybe it's about a beautiful relationship. I don't know.
I really don't have time to think about it.
"You are correct that a husband's love for his wife should not be predicated on any standard of outward beauty. A wife's desire to please her husband comes in the context of his need to love her unconditionally and serve her sacrificially, and it enables him to do that more and better.
One of the beauties of how God has designed men and women in a complementary fashion is that the better job a husband does of being a Biblical husband, the more he inspires his wife to be a Biblical wife, and vice versa - it's synergistic."
One of the beauties of how God has designed men and women in a complementary fashion is that the better job a husband does of being a Biblical husband, the more he inspires his wife to be a Biblical wife, and vice versa - it's synergistic."
2 comments:
So much I could say...
I tend to agree with Rachel Held Evans on this one.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to look nice for your husband. But, "looking nice" is subjective, and not commanded in scripture.
Here is the truth, a husband who loves his wife as Christ loves the church will love his wife is she is old or wrinkled or fat or thin or crazy or sane. He will love HER, not what he sees, but what he knows. That doesn't mean we can just give up shampoo (ha!) or toothpaste, but it also means that our husbands will love us in our sweatshirts as much as they do in our dinner out dresses. Mine does, and I love him all the more for it.
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